Coburn Kids

Ugh, so much to tell about… happy things.  But right at this moment I am so frustrated I could scream!  In the ongoing saga of trying to set up Caden’s therapy we have a developmental therapist. Great!  Good, no idea what exactly they do though honestly. What I really really need for Caden is speech though.  He’s at a 6 month old level.  He’s 22 months old.  I am being told there is absolutely no one.  They gave me an option to drive down to the center (25 minutes away) on Thursdays at 3:00 pm.  Which is less then desirable and something I would only be able to do during the summer months.  As soon as school starts at the end of August this time would no longer work as my kids get out of school at 3:25 PM. I explained this to the woman and her “simple” response is that there’s no one else.  Period.  There’s no one who can come to the home, there’s no other center times. We’ll just have to continue to wait.

I’m appalled.  My son desperately needs these services.  The state is supposed to help these children. My son is not a few months behind, this is not a case of a parent worried that their 2 year old only doesn’t talk much, or can only say mama and dada and is not speaking in full sentences.  My son can’t say a single word.  He has a few basic sounds (that of a 6 month old) but has nothing else.  Nothing. I recognize that I’m, perhaps, over reacting. Of course these other children need a bit of help, but as a mother I could almost cry and I’m seriously in mother bear mode. What am I supposed to do for my son!

Caden has plenty of interaction during the day, his sisters and Daniel and I are not a quiet bunch.  He is exposed to more language and sounds then my other 2 children were even.  I am frequently on the ground, on his level using the techniques that his old therapists taught us. Touching our mouth while saying sounds. Pairing together sounds with actions. Imitating sounds that he makes. My daughters do this with him too. I encourage him to make sounds to tell us if he wants something. There’s just not much progress.  I know how much many of us, including myself, take for granted the incredible learning process that our children do, but Caden needs help, he needs specialists.  Every month that passes he is further behind.  This is just such a critical time for Caden to develop these skills, these sounds and I feel like the window is closing.

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