Mommy is Freaked Out and My Little Wildcats

Posted by admin on Tuesday Oct 16, 2007 Under Adessa, Caden, Coburn Kids, Genevieve

Wow, what a ride this whole experience has become. I just got a call from Caden’s Occupational Therapist and I need to schedule some time to go in because I have to learn how to place an NG tube.  What’s this you say?  It’s a nasogastric tube, a feeding tube threaded from the nose to the stomach.  It’s pretty obvious that Caden will not be taking full bottle feedings for a long while. How intimidating is that!! I listened to a debate between Caden’s Nurse and the NNP just 2 weeks ago on whether he could even do an NG tube through the nose versus the mouth because of the difficulty of inserting it with his cleft.  And now I’m going to be doing that?! 

So it’s a freak out moment for Mommy. Yeah.  I thought we might have to deal with just oxygen, tubes, tanks and now we get an extra tube in there. Hmm, is it a little weird for me to think that I’m bringing home a patient versus a little baby? Maybe he’ll be off the oxygen before then.  He’s doing quite well, he’s still on .5 liters at 21-24%. So while he’s having his A&B’s and forgetting to breathe once in a while he’s breathing pretty well on the whole.  We don’t even have to turn up his oxygen when feeding so he’s getting stronger.  He breathes very very fast though, probably because of some lung damage. It becomes very difficult for him to coordinate the suck, swallow and breathing when he’s over 70 breathes a minutes and he’s frequently up near 100.  It’s like running a marathon and then trying to eat dinner while your panting.

Gena is feeling better today as is Adessa.  Good news there, and I can tell they feel well because the fighting has started again. What is with sisters and the fighting and annoying each other?  Everyone asks if it’s Genevieve who starts it, which I guess would be natural because she’s the older sister, but it’s Adessa. Let me tell you though, Adessa can hold her own. I worry more about Adessa hurting Genevieve the the other way around.  She’s a spitfire! 

I can tell Karate is paying off too, whether this is good or bad remains to be seen.  Adessa told us that a little boy hit her at school today. When I asked why she said “because he’s a boy.”  Apparently that’s reason enough. :) But Gena, when she heard about it, immediately said “you need to block him Adessa like this.” And proceeded to demonstrate one of her blocks she learned in Karate. So between each other and school, I have a pair of fighters in training!

4 Responses to “Mommy is Freaked Out and My Little Wildcats”

  1. Andrea Griggs Says:

    Wow! Good luck with the feeding tube, that is scary, but I know you’ll do just fine! When do they think he’ll be coming home?

  2. admin Says:

    I have no idea! They always tell you to expect until at least their due date. With Gena she was out 5 weeks before her due date! With Caden… I have no idea. His due date was October 28th.

    He meets the weight requirement so that’s covered. He has to go at least 7 days without any A&B’s (stop breathing episodes) and we always thought he had to be on full bottle feedings before discharge. So the last one is obviously something they are willing to discharge him before that time if we are comfortable with the feeding tube, inserting, managing that etc.

    Right now it’s really his A&B’s that I know they can’t budge on that. At least 7 days without any A&B’s and then they could consider discharging him with an apnea monitor. He had his last one on Monday at 8am. Hasn’t had any since then so every time he has an A&B the clock starts over with 7 days. Really the only indicator I have right now.

  3. Grandma Coburn Says:

    Glad the girls are better do you have to insert that tube everytime you feed Caden?

  4. Grandma Warner Says:

    I love the heading! Couldn’t have been put better.

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